People often say that you have to please the society. Keep the society in mind. What will the society say. I always wonder why don't they realize that they are the society. And if its not them then they are trying to please some nonentity that does not exist. They are trying to do something that should not be done, need not be done. It is a futile activity. There are social boundaries. A cost for living in a collective society. But that does not mean that we sacrifice our personal values just for the sake of society. I am not talking about morality or ethics. No. I am talking about the little things. How you keep your hair. How you interact with the certain people. We Don't Always have to bow. We do not always have to say yea sure why not. Anarchy may be a way.